Blog
Ready to learn?
4 Things You Need to Know About Sexuality Counseling
Many people are curious about sexuality counseling. But, many assumptions about what it is and what it entails are often negative, misguided, or wildly incorrect.
4. Certified Sexuality Counselors Are Highly Trained in Addressing Issues of Human Sexuality
If you’re interested in learning more about sexuality counseling and how it can help you, here are four things you should know about it.
1. The Goal of Sexuality Counseling Is to Help People Experience Satisfying Sex Lives
Sexuality counseling is typically short-term. A sexuality counselor will focus on the sexual health challenge(s) at hand, and provide psychoeducation, teaching their patients to problem solve, enhance their communication skills, improve their assertiveness skills, and equip them with techniques to ameliorate their sexual dysfunction.
1. The Goal of Sexuality Counseling Is to Help People Experience Satisfying Sex Lives
Sexuality counseling is typically short-term. A sexuality counselor will focus on the sexual health challenge(s) at hand, and provide psychoeducation, teaching their patients to problem solve, enhance their communication skills, improve their assertiveness skills, and equip them with techniques to ameliorate their sexual dysfunction.
The primary goal of sexuality counseling is to assist individuals and couples to ensure satisfying and enjoyable intimate relationships, as well as sex lives in general. This can include teaching their patients about sexual anatomy and physiology, as well as the impact that medications and lifestyle can have on their sexual health.
2. Sexuality Counseling Helps to Decrease Sexual Discomfort
By and large, sexuality counseling is a form of support provided by physicians, and nurses, among other types of healthcare professionals, as well as school counselors, and religious leaders.
2. Sexuality Counseling Helps to Decrease Sexual Discomfort
By and large, sexuality counseling is a form of support provided by physicians, and nurses, among other types of healthcare professionals, as well as school counselors, and religious leaders.
Sexuality counseling allows people to explore their beliefs, develop coping mechanisms, and find practical approaches that work best for them. At no point is the goal to persuade someone to head in one direction or another. Instead, it’s a safe place where people can talk about difficulties they experience, gain insights about potential solutions, and receive support as they move toward their ideal outcome.
3. Sexuality Counseling Can be a Solo or Joint Experience
When a person visits a sexuality counselor, they aren’t required to bring their partner, even if they are in a long-term intimate relationship that’s being impacted by the challenges that person is facing. Some may find solo appointments beneficial, allowing them to address individual concerns privately. Others may prefer to attend appointments with their partner, allowing the couple to work together toward common goals, gain a greater understanding of one another, or build stronger connections.
When a person visits a sexuality counselor, they aren’t required to bring their partner, even if they are in a long-term intimate relationship that’s being impacted by the challenges that person is facing. Some may find solo appointments beneficial, allowing them to address individual concerns privately. Others may prefer to attend appointments with their partner, allowing the couple to work together toward common goals, gain a greater understanding of one another, or build stronger connections.
4. Certified Sexuality Counselors Are Highly Trained in Addressing Issues of Human Sexuality
Certified sexuality counselors are medical professionals, including health counselors, gynecologists, urologists, and psychiatrists. However, regardless of their profession, American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors, and Therapists (AASECT) certified sexuality counselors have gone through rigorous training, giving them a broad and robust understanding of human sexuality in all of its various forms. This ensures that they have the expertise to address a wide range of concerns effectively, all while creating a safe space that’s free from judgment.
You can learn human sexuality counseling at The Sexual Health School. We specialize in providing AASECT and APA human sexuality CE courses that you can complete from the comfort of your home.
Building a sex-positive world, one CE course at a time.
legal pages
Thank you!
All rights reserved | Copyright ©2021-2022 | Brand & Website by Medleythink Creative
Jillian Watts, M.A., M. Ed., ACS
-
Sexual Health Learning Theories
-
The Right to Belong: Prioritizing Justice, Equity, Diversity & Belonging in Sexuality Practices
-
Ethical Non Monogamy
-
Performance Anxiety During Family Planning
Jay (Jillian) Watts, M.A., M. Ed., ACS (She/They) is an Affrilachian Queer Sexuality & Diversity Scholar and currently a DE&I executive for a domestic violence organization. She has a Bachelors in Social Studies Education from the University of Louisville; Masters of Art in Human Services from Eastern Kentucky University; Master of Education in Cultural Foundations of Education; and almost completed with a PhD in Mental Health with a focus in Race, Sexuality & Healing from Walden University in 2022. They have over a decade in Sexuality and Diversity, Equity & Inclusion with experience in working with over 32 K-12 school districts, 17 higher education institutions, 4 National Conferences, and over 60,000 touch points in training. Her academic journals and writing can be found in the Diverse: Issues in Higher Education; Encyclopedia of Social Justice & Diversity; Journal of Social Research; ScholarWorks; and three in progress publications.
Jay is currently focusing her dissertation journey on the Relationship Between Sexual Racism on Sexual Satisfaction, Attitudes, & Shame of Black Women. She also is an AASECT Sex Counselor in Training and a Certified Sexologist through World Association of Sex Coaches and the American College of Sexologists International. Jay is the CEO of The Center for Inclusive Sexuality Education and Healing, LLC. where she offers sex coaching, intimacy and sex education, toy consultation and sales, and passion, purpose and pleasure coaching.
Jay is currently focusing her dissertation journey on the Relationship Between Sexual Racism on Sexual Satisfaction, Attitudes, & Shame of Black Women. She also is an AASECT Sex Counselor in Training and a Certified Sexologist through World Association of Sex Coaches and the American College of Sexologists International. Jay is the CEO of The Center for Inclusive Sexuality Education and Healing, LLC. where she offers sex coaching, intimacy and sex education, toy consultation and sales, and passion, purpose and pleasure coaching.
Janet Brito, PhD, PSY, LCSW, CST-S
-
Introduction to Sexual Health: Socio-Cultural-Familial Factors in Relation to Sexual Values and Behaviors
-
Theory and Methods of Sex-Related Psychotherapy and Counseling
-
How to Build Intimacy Skills for Healthy Sexual Relationships: A Clinician's Guide
-
Sexual Response Models and Sensate Focus
-
A Beginner's Guide to Kink: A Sex-Positive Approach
-
Out of Control Sexual Behaviors & Techniques to Treat Out of Control Sexual Behaviors
-
Methods of Sex-Related Psychotherapy and Counseling: Clinical Approaches
-
How Mindfulness Can Help You Improve Your Sex Life
-
She Comes First: Pleasure Products Made for Her and Pleasure Enhancement Devices for Penis Owners
-
Professional Communication and Personal Reflection Skills
-
Introduction to Sex Therapy
-
Sex Therapy: Assessment and Evaluation
-
Delayed Ejaculation (DE): Assessment, Evaluation, and Evidence-Based Treatment Strategies
-
Erectile Disorder (ED): Assessment, Evaluation, and Evidence-Based Treatment Strategies
-
Female Orgasmic Disorder (FOD): Assessment, Evaluation, and Evidence-Based Treatment Strategies
-
Female Sexual Interest/Arousal Disorder (FSIAD): Assessment, Evaluation, and Evidence-Based Treatment Strategies
-
Genito-Pelvic Pain/Penetration Disorder (GPPPD): Assessment, Evaluation, and Evidence-Based Treatment Strategies
-
Premature (Early) Ejaculation (PE): Assessment, Evaluation, and Evidence-Based Treatment Strategies
-
Foundations of Sexual Health: Empowering Ethical Decision-Making through Self-Reflection
-
Enhancing Intimacy: A Sex Therapy Approach to Addressing Sexual Difficulties in Couples Therapy
Dr. Janet Brito is an AASECT-certified sex therapist & supervisor who also has a license in clinical psychology and social work. She is a graduate of Pacifica Graduate Institute and completed her postdoctoral fellowship from the University of Minnesota Medical School, one of only a few university programs in the world dedicated to sexuality training. Currently, she’s based in Honolulu, Hawaii and is the founder of the Hawaii Center for Sexual and Relationship Health, a group practice that specializes in the areas of relationship and sex therapy, out of control sexual behavior, and providing an affirming space for gender and sexually diverse individuals.
In 2021, Dr. Brito started The Sexual Health School, an online training program for pre-licensed, licensed therapists, educators, graduate students, and health care professionals who are curious to learn more about sexual health. Dr. Brito has been featured on many outlets, including The Oprah Magazine, The Huffington Post, Playboy, Healthline, Women’s Health Magazine,Thrive Global, and Bustle. Her dissertation A phenomenological analysis on infertility in Mexican women living in the United States was published in the Revista Interamericana de Psicologia/Interamerican Journal of Psychology.
In 2021, Dr. Brito started The Sexual Health School, an online training program for pre-licensed, licensed therapists, educators, graduate students, and health care professionals who are curious to learn more about sexual health. Dr. Brito has been featured on many outlets, including The Oprah Magazine, The Huffington Post, Playboy, Healthline, Women’s Health Magazine,Thrive Global, and Bustle. Her dissertation A phenomenological analysis on infertility in Mexican women living in the United States was published in the Revista Interamericana de Psicologia/Interamerican Journal of Psychology.
Alejandra Lucatero, LCSW
-
Reclaiming Sexuality
-
Sexual Trauma and Self-Esteem
Alejandra Lucatero (she/her/ella) is a licensed clinical social worker, dual-licensed in California and Hawaii, and a clinical fellow at the Hawaii Center for Sexual and Relationship Health. She promotes sexual and relationship wellness and empowerment through a sex-positive therapeutic approach for individuals and couples facing sexual dysfunctions, relationship distress, gender/sexuality questioning, and sexual trauma.
Growing up in a predominantly Hispanic/Latine and Catholic community, Alejandra aims to reduce sexual stigma and break generational patterns that no longer serve people sexually. She completed her Certificate in Sexual Health at The Sexual Health School and has been featured in magazines such as Giddy, The Bump, Women’s Health, Hustlers, and Prevention.
Connect with Alejandra on Instagram for honest insights on relationships and sexual health.
Growing up in a predominantly Hispanic/Latine and Catholic community, Alejandra aims to reduce sexual stigma and break generational patterns that no longer serve people sexually. She completed her Certificate in Sexual Health at The Sexual Health School and has been featured in magazines such as Giddy, The Bump, Women’s Health, Hustlers, and Prevention.
Connect with Alejandra on Instagram for honest insights on relationships and sexual health.
CLICK TO VISIT WEBSITE
Thank you!
Your Step-By-Step Guide is here!!
Javier Segovia, PhD, LCSW-S
-
Understanding the Intersection: HIV/AIDS and Sexual Health
Dr. Segovia (he/him) holds a PhD in Social Work from Our Lady of the Lake University, integrates research, teaching, and clinical expertise to address LGBTQIA+ issues, adolescents, adults, HIV/AIDS, and more. As a psychotherapist and researcher, he contributes to ethical changes in social work curricula, currently employed with The U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs.